Good morning beautiful people!!!…

I woke up this morning feeling very optimistic about the new week, almost excited even. On my way to work, I came down at my bus stop and started the five minutes walk to the office. The sun was shining, the skies were blue, and the birds were singing in the trees…

Ok, maybe I couldn’t really hear the birds cos I had my ear phones on… and maybe there were no birds, cos there are no trees near my office, but you get the general message: it was a beautiful day.

That was until some dickhead sent from the pit of hell splashed water on me. It hasn’t rained in Lagos since Friday… it drizzled a bit yesterday but it wasn’t anything serious. Still, this agent of satan found the only puddle remaining in the whole of West Africa and decided to drive through it at the speed of Schumacher. My shoes and trousers got wet.

My shoulders fell and my mood sank fast… I just stopped and turned to look back at the speeding car and I felt worse because there was absolutely nothing I could do about it. I could only give him the middle finger but from that distance, through his rearview mirror, I probably looked like I was giving him the thumbs up sign. It didn’t help that my fingers are short and stubby and I look like I have five thumbs on each hand 🙁

The water splashing episode took me back to the horrible week I had last week…

Remember I told you guys that I had been working on something and I was expecting results? Well, it turned out quite well… there were very few complaints, but that was expected. All in all, it went well. So we started work on a second group of people. This second group was only a tiny fraction of the number we had done the previous week so I was pretty much left to handle it alone.

I thought, How hard can this be? I did most of it the first time anyways… this should be a piece of cake”.

So I got all the info I needed, talked to all the people I needed to talk to and then got to work on it. I thought it would be a great way to prove myself… you know, so that people will see me as more than just ‘that girl who wears heavy eye makeup’.

One whole day and one sleepless night later, I was done. I submitted my finished work on Thursday morning and, just sat back, waiting for results. I even started a blog post that day…

All of a sudden, I started getting calls from headquarters… shit had hit the fan. Boss 1 called and shredded me to pieces. Then Boss No. 2 called and ground my shredded pieces to a fine powder. By the time Boss 3 called, I decided to not answer the phone. I didn’t want to be melted into a paste…

I was more in shock than anything else. I immediately went back to the work I had done and I looked through it about 65 times. I couldn’t see what was wrong that had tied everybody’s G-string in such a tight knot… to me, everything looked perfect. That was until I got a mail from a colleague. It had some info that I needed for that job. It was info that I should’ve had before I even started the job. The same job that I had already done and made a total mess of….

She said she forgot to send it in to me along with the others she sent.

In that ideal world that I live in, the one that exists only in my head, she should’ve told our bosses that she didn’t give me the things she was supposed to and that was why everything was in such a hot mess. Instead, she sent me a mail with no apology but with a promise that by God’s grace, things will get better.

I wanted to reply and tell her exactly where she needs to shove that grace… but I stayed quiet. I got to work Friday morning and there was a mail from my Jesus boss. It was a mail describing how horrible I am… the mail was full of;

YOU did this…

YOU did that…

YOUR actions have caused this…

YOUR actions have caused that…

YOU have single handedly destroyed this company

YOU deserve to be bitten by a rabid dog, catch rabies and die…

I was staring at the screen and all the “Yous” just kept jumping out at me. You can’t imagine how terrible I felt.

…but that’s not the issue. The issue here is that I stayed quiet. I stayed quiet when I was being shredded, I was quiet when I was being ground to a fine powder, and even after I got the mail, I remained quiet. It was like I was in a trance for two whole days and I couldn’t react. Only thing I did when I got home on Thursday was cry…

I was so pissed with my mother!!!

Yes… believe it or not, I said my mother. She’s the one I blame for all of this. I’m angry because she raised a mumu and not a fighter.

My mother is not a fighter… she may be a shouter, a yeller, a screamer even, but she’s not a fighter. Growing up, we watched her go through some things from certain people and she never fought back or spoke up. She somehow made us believe that God’s judgment (or karma if you will) would eventually have its way and the wrongdoer would get back what he/she deserved.

…but only in Nollywood does life really work out that way.

That’s why puddle splashers from hell can bathe me with muddy water… and colleagues, also from the pit of hell, can indirectly get me in trouble… and Goodluck Jonathan can decide to not give me electricity for days at a time… cos they know I don’t have any fight left in me and there’s nothing I can do. I will sit quietly like a mentally retarded patient. If I’m docile enough, I might even drool…

But on a serious note, there’s a reason I didn’t fight. It was because I really did blame myself. I should’ve known better than to trust anything that was coming from my colleague. It won’t be the first time she put someone in trouble because of her pea-brainedness.

I’m beginning to think that maybe this corporate world is not for me. It’s just a place where bottom feeders get pissed on and no one ever takes responsibility for anything… When things go right, it’s a good job WE did. When shit hits the fan, we blame it on the lady who sells akara.


Well… she sold akara to my colleague, who ate the akara, then had a runny stomach. The runny stomach made her poop, and in the process she shat out most of her brains, and that’s why she didn’t have the sense to send me the folder she should’ve sent and that’s why I did a shoddy job and that’s why my company is filing for Chapter 11…

In fact, it is possible that this entire country is falling to ruins because of the akara ladies!!! If I didn’t love akara so much, I would sign a petition; NO MORE AKARA!!!




Ps; I’m sorry for this freakishly long post. Have a wonderful week…

Is it too late to wish you guys a Happy New Month?

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jerry · October 7, 2013 at 1:45 pm

Bruhahaha! Ok seriously why am i laughin- arrangin face. Now, gal didnt u take d crash course “blame d serpent” b4 u pledged allegiance to d corporate world? (Amateurs! smh). Its a dysfunctional system out there and next time, b4 ur cremated ashes are sprinkled at Kuramo beach, pls for d love of anything u believe in, throw in some curve balls u hear? Repeat after me; “this bit*h aint getting burnt in d behind alone”

oh! My name is jerry and am an addict. Scratch that, i thot i was in rehab.

    admin · October 8, 2013 at 5:25 am

    *…and the rest of us chorus* HI JERRY!!
    Welcome to this blog!!!

    And you’re right about that crash course. It may be too late now as I’ve been summoned to Headquarters tomorrow. Whatever!
    “This bitch ain’t getting burned in her (lovely) behind alone!!!!”

Obi-10 · October 7, 2013 at 11:12 pm

Lmao, this post both cracked me up(Only puddle left in West Africa and stubby fingers giving a thumbs up, Akara) and made me a little sad, cos I’ve had those thoughts at some point, where you question why your basic response to bullshit is to err on the side of reason, instead of flipping out like the folks who do and end up getting shit done their way. However, that’s just mad negative thots working overtime. Awesome post love.

    admin · October 8, 2013 at 9:13 am

    …speaking of “side of reasoning”, I’ve been summoned to the office this morning. I’m praying to sweet Jesus in heaven that He gives me the patience and the grace to not bitch-slap someone cos I’m TIRED!!!

Orbz · October 8, 2013 at 12:31 am

Ngozi dear what I can tell you… Welcome to the corporate world. It can be mean and ruthless at times but we’re too rugged to back down. Your mom didn’t raise a mumu, she raised a fine woman who knows when to fight. Make sure you learn from your mistakes, impress them in your next task and keep your shoulders square… Don’t allow any Oga at the top steal your confidence. You’ll be fine!!!

    admin · October 8, 2013 at 9:20 am

    You’re just a darling… thank you so much Orbs!!! If there’s one thing I’m definitely doing, it’s learning from this. I should’ve known better than to not question that akara-eating oaf… mtscheeew.
    Hope you and the boys are doing great…

David · October 11, 2013 at 5:04 am

Trust me its like they forget every other thing you have done well the minute stuff goes wrong. Its a dog eat dog world out there but I know you’ll be fine.
Please note its not snitching if your back is against the wall. *sent you a dm*

Nji · October 12, 2013 at 2:04 pm

Hey you! The fine looking corporate world where everyone is so smart,nice and good looking and the job is so interesting and it’s’just one big happy family at the office is stuff of low budget movies!!!!

Hang in there love and blow them away on your next task…it will soon be payday!!!

What’s’wrong with your phone?

GA · October 18, 2013 at 11:37 am

Ngo baby loke loke, I tell you now (as usual) f#ck theses ni99as! U dont hv to fight, ur mama aint raise no fool.. U are a lady.. stick to the strenghts nd shun the weakness. U gotta keep ur head up! Impress only thy self! Man cannot be satisfied.

Enough said.. sorry for the late post been mad busy!


naija rookie · October 21, 2013 at 11:54 pm

(I won’t talk about how your life is parallel to mine, but the same thing happened to me too!)
I started a new job (same time as you), and on my way to work last week, I got stopped by police and they started harassing me about the work laptop.
Fine, whatever, after a long drawn out series of phone calls to the office and a few people, and getting taken to the station, I finally paid them (300 naira recharge).
But then, I got mad at my mom because she is not a fighter, and as a result, I am way behind in being an aggressive person, and I could never call her if something ever happened to me and expect her to throw down and start some shit.
And as if to seal the deal, when she finally heard about the police stopping me, she said, “How could you not have a receipt and a letter from your office?”
Yeah, my bad.

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